Do you think Tight clothes make u sexy?

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I see it all the time, I'm guilty of it too. Trying to be sexy for the attraction of the opposite sex. I thought that by revealing by body in a sexy way, I somehow exert my feminine power. But ..... I have a new perspective, I think mystery goes further  and mysteries come from holding back. It comes from being covered up to your neck and the only skin showing is a knee or your back or your arms.

When you give it all away, there is nothing left to wonder about! I feel women should wear more dresses. I love styles that are fitted at the hips, that lightly drape the body. Creating wonderment is the real power. And don't get me wrong, I'm not hating on women with beautiful bodies, I think you should reward your accomplishments if you need too.

What I am saying is if your focus for wearing tight clothes is for 'seduction' purposes, I ask you to think about the concept of sexy again. When you get into someones mind your power lasts or linger much further than a momentary glance at some flesh. You have an ass, so does she, you have tits, so does she, you have a vagina, so does she, so what makes you different?

You could be drop dead gorgeous but after the show is over, and they can see what is, the excitement diminishes from that moment.

There's not enough build up.

Imagination is part of having an 'experience' Its like giving him "a first time" sex session without any work. How do you evaluate your value? Is it with your body? Let me tell you something... you are getting older and so am I ... you are not the same person you were 20 years ago... that person is not here now. Are you better now?

How do you get better if you're getting older? Your ability and skills 'create' who you are, your intelligence, your humor, your scent, the tone of your voice, your nurturing spirit all make you stand out. Tight clothes is the easy way out, you will get the reaction but there's no work to get the response, but the "first time "will come and go what will, when he has sex with you what happens after that? Will the passion fade? Yes, it always does! But you can wake it back up again, with the more you know and experience... that's what sexy is really about!
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