Does he Really Want U!

 

I've have been a victim of men who lie for there own interests. Or should I say, I had allowed myself to be a victim. If you look back on all your failed relationships, I'm sure you could flesh out some sign that was apparent to you about his ill intent. I believe we ignore the signs most of the time. Why? Well, for fear of being right, of course!

Who wants to be alone? I know I don't. But the fact is that it is harder to discern the mission of men when you are clouded with emotions. He looks good, you like his voice, his swag, cologne always on, fresh breath etc. And heaven forbid if he take us out a few times or buy the little rug rats some toys, you really think you in the house now.

I refer to myself as a Feline, a cat-like nature, and if you study anything about cats you will know that a true cat is never hurried to move, She will wait up to 9 hours in a patch of grass for the right time to strike her prey. She goes where she wants, when she wants, and not 'persuaded' to act upon anything outside of her own instinct. Have you ever seen a cat on a leash? NO! And you never will cause she is totally independent.

Understand that the choice of a mate has to be a careful one. Watch for laziness, dirty habits, mental abilities and physical strength. Felines only allow the strongest males to breed with her because she is in tune with nature and understands that weaker males should not be allowed to have offspring to produce more weaker species.

I know.. its all so technical.. what happened to the love stuff!
Oh its there, its very much there but we love in the wrong order. If a man gives you his ass to kiss, why do you love this? If he doesn't make sure you are secure and safe, why do you love him? If he isn't willing to please you in bed and only concerned with is nut, why do you love him? Its because your affection is actually and infection, a foreign bacteria like feeling that has invaded your body along with his sperm.

You are literally blinded by your "love' for him because you are in a form of 'insanity'. So how do you move back into your right mind? By making decisions based on facts, not emotion. By listening to what he tells you when his guard is down, talk to him when his belly is full, when he is comfortable.

You will never get the truth from a man at your first date, not the second or third date either. Its all 'show' and conjecture when its new. You wouldn't dare take a shit in his toilet and he is always on time...everybody's is acting.

But if you just wait a while, like the feline in the grass, just wait, and everything..EVERYTHING will reveal itself. it has too! A strong motivator for men that are attracted to you and even the ones that think you hideous, is to have sex with you, You have what EVERY man wants, from the straight men who F you  to the sweet men who wish they were u.

If you find yourself being 'talked into things' instead initiating decision then you most definitely are being manipulated. So start off your new mind set by being in a relaxed state. Never be hurried to act or react to anything a man does, just listen and what the show, cause that is what it is until you see patterns and habits.

If he says things like "I'm only with her for the kids" or I got you, don't worry" there are a few things happening with these statements. One, you obviously do have a reason for concern because you have not seen the action matched to the promise, two, he's F'N lier to start with and he ain't living his kids or his wife for you.  But that another rant for later. What I will close with here is that we have to exercise some freakin patience ladies! Again, pussy, the cat, the feline is never in a hurry to do shit until the conditions are just right...just lay and wait.

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Salkis Re, 1# Motivator for Black Women Worldwide!